Category Archive: Womanhood

When Did We Grow Numb?

I’ve been carrying sadness in my heart. When I focus on what lead to this sadness I get angry, and by the end of the retelling of the story or when I recall… Continue reading

I Haven’t Been my Best Self lately.

I haven’t been my best self lately. This year has been the perfect balance between yin and yang, dark and bright, heavy and light and good and bad. In other words, this year… Continue reading

I Dreamt About an Ex…

I woke up profoundly changed, about a month ago. This change occurred while I was asleep having, what at first felt like a nightmare, but in actuality it was a dream. Over seven years… Continue reading

Wisdom Wednesday #82 – If Romantic Comedies Were Real

It’s Wednesday! I came across todays Wisdom during my marriage meditation. That meditation was eyeing because of the wisdom that showed up everywhere I turned. Today’s wisdom popped up during that specific meditation and… Continue reading

Wisdom #80 – What We Get Wrong About Love

Is love a noun or a verb?

Marriage: Where do I stand?

I knew where I stood on this subject for myself, but through this process it changed.

Wisdom #79 – Opting out of Marriage

“How do you feel the best about you?”

Mindful Monday #151 – Slay Your Own Dragons

I’ve grown so accustomed to living alone, that I overlooked this…

Position Yourself for Marriage

“Give yourself a real shot at a good marriage, because once you are in marriage, it’s a whole new ball game. “

He Drew Her like a Spiral

In September of 2016, I decided to remain optimistic about marriage. I realized I was ready for marriage, in February of that year. Shortly after that realization friends and strangers, on their own, told… Continue reading

Relationships: The Five Levels of Anima/ Animus

We seek archetypes in our partner that will balance our suppressed masculine or feminine.

You Have a Choice to Get Off the Train

“It seems like you were on the train.” I told the woman with tired, worn eyes. “On the train?” She asked in a confused tone. In the moments leading up to what she… Continue reading

Wisdom #77 – Skills for Healthy Romantic Relationships

“We may know what a healthy relationship may look like, but most people have no idea how to get one. And no one teaches us how to do so.” Joanne Davila states in… Continue reading

Seven Generations of Women

By chance and by choice, I found myself among large communities of women, in 2016. As I followed my curiosity to events, groups and organizations, I gained skills that deepened my spirituality, tools that assisted… Continue reading

Tune #43 – Marry the Man Today

I am currently meditating on marriage. Last year I realized I was ready for marriage and what came next was a surprising universal counter argument to re-think that desire. Now, I am trying to make… Continue reading